Meeting Etiquette
When you are introduced to a stranger acknowledge with a handshake.
Men may embrace and pat each other on the shoulder, once a friendly relationship is established. Female folks kiss each other lightly on both cheeks, starting with the left.
In Spain people are referred to as Don or Dona and their first name when in formal occasion as a general rule.
Dining Etiquette
When you are invited to a Spaniard's home, you can carry some chocolates, pastries, or cakes; wine, liqueur, or brandy; or flowers to the hostess. This is not a rule though, but its not advised to go empty handed. If you know your hosts have children, carrying a small gift for them is always appreciated. Avoid being late for the meal.
Table manners
When called for a meal at a Spaniard’s home some table etiquettes will create a comfortable atmosphere for you and the hosts. Remain standing until invited to sit down. You may be shown to a particular seat.
Always keep your hands visible when eating. Keep your wrists resting on the edge of the table but don’t rest them on your lap. Begin eating only after the hostess starts.
Even fruit is eaten with a knife and fork. If you are still continuing to eat, cross your knife and fork on your plate with the fork over the knife.
The host gives the first toast.
An honored guest should return the toast later in the meal.
It is acceptable for a woman to make a toast.
Indicate you have done with the meal by laying your knife and fork parallel on your plate, facing up, with the handles facing to the right.
Do not get up until the guest of honor does.
